I help women shift out of survival thinking and back into themselves. This work is about unburying the brilliance you hid to keep the peace, releasing the lie that you’re behind or too late, and recognizing when a life that looks “fine” is slowly making you disappear.
It’s for the woman who spent years taking care of everyone else and is finally choosing herself — without permission, without apology.
Through my Living It Back Method™, I guide women to restore identity, rebuild self-trust, and step fully into life, not by fixing themselves, but by changing how they see who they are and what’s possible now.
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Yolanda Denise
Identity Restoration Coach
Instagram & Threads: @yolandadeniseco_
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PEOPLE WHO HAVE NEVER EXPERIENCED NARCISSISTIC ABUSE, DON'T UNDERSTAND IDENTITY LOSS.
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Coach Yolanda Denise
Certified Transformation Life Coach
Cognitive Behavior (CBT), &
Therapeutic Life Coach​
"I help women remember who they are — and live from that place."
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Starting over isn’t failure.
It’s permission to live the life you didn’t get to explore before.
WHAT CHANGES WITH THE LIVING IT BACK METHOD™
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With The Living It Back Method™, you move through a clear identity return — step by step:
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You UNBURY the brilliance you buried to survive. The dreams. The creativity. The fire. The parts of you they called "too much." She's not gone. She went into hiding. We bring her back.
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You UNLIMIT the "too late" lies that kept you frozen. You're not behind. You didn't miss your window. Your timeline is yours. And it's not over.
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You UNHIDE from a life that looked good but was killing you slowly. You don't need permission to stop disappearing. "I'm not happy" is reason enough.
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You UNAPOLOGIZE for taking up space. You've been everybody's everything. That's done now. "No" is a complete sentence. Your turn is NOW.
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And finally — you LIVE. Not surviving. Not reacting. Not defending. Actually living — as the woman you forgot you were.
This isn't about processing what happened. It's about discovering who you are now that you're not just surviving it.
Identity restoration. In motion.
On purpose.
UNBURY → UNLIMIT → UNHIDE → UNAPOLOGIZE → LIVE